Ego and self confidence - Is there a difference?

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By lovelypaper

Sigmund Freud

Sigmund Freud wrote The Interpretation of Dreams and The Psychopathology of Everyday Life.
Sigmund Freud wrote The Interpretation of Dreams and The Psychopathology of Everyday Life.

Ego and Self Confidence - the same thing?

I was pondering this question recently and thought I would delve into this further. Let's look at what each of these means to get a better understanding.

Defined by Sigmund Freud, the ego is a part of our personality that deals with reality. He believed that the ego has to deal with the conflicting demands of both the ID and Superego.A person's id seeks to fulfill their wants, needs, and impulses while the superego attempts to get the ego to act in an idealistic and moral manner.

According to Freud's analysis of personality, the id is made up of unconscious psychic energy that wants to satisfy our basic wants and urges and operates on a pleasure principle.

What is Super Ego or superego? In a nutshell, it is our conscious or our sense of right and wrong that we get from our parents and society. It suppresses our unacceptable or immoral urges.

Now we come to self-confidence, which is often mistaken for egotism. Someone who portrays themselves as being self-confident may be seen as having a large ego, being cocky or what we call an Egomaniac. Most of us have had to work with someone we see as having a massive ego, but to be fair, would it actually be that this person is self-confident? Where does self-confidence end and Egotism begin? Firstly, what is self-confidence?

Wikipedia defines confidence, i.e. self-confidence as "a state of being certain either that a hypothesis or prediction is correct or that a chosen course of action is the best or most effective. Self-confidence is having confidence in oneself. "

Then there is Self esteem which, again according to Wikipedia, is " a term used in psychology to reflect a person's overall evaluation or appraisal of his or her own worth".

This is probably a complex question that cannot be answered simply, but we have now defined: Ego, Superego, Self-confidence and Self Esteem to help you get a better understanding of what each term means in relation to our psychy.

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Chris Achilleos profile image

Chris Achilleos Level 3 Commenter 2 months ago

I have enjoyed reading this hub, thanks for sharing :) Voted up!!!

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sameerk 24 months ago

nice topic , good one

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slock62 2 years ago

And then there is the concept of the non-self,of self as an illusion. There is the shadow self and the true self. Many ways of investigating the self. All of them are simply what gets one from point A to point B and what influences the decisions we make along the way.Do we need to assign it a title or is it best to try and figure out a higher choice that leads to making better decisions and produces better outcomes.

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Michael Shane 2 years ago

I agree with Micky Dee, he took the words from my mouth....Also, Quill is right too! However, I see no harm in taking pride in a job well done.....That philosophy seems to be slipping away from jobs...

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Mike Lickteig Level 3 Commenter 2 years ago

Ego could be viewed as self-confidence taken to an extreme. I've often believed that one's worst qualities are often our best qualities, magnified to an extreme.

Nicely researched hub.

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lovelypaper Hub Author 2 years ago

Very well said, Micky. I didn't think of it like that!

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Micky Dee Level 4 Commenter 2 years ago

Great hub. Confidence is knowing. Ego is showing! Thanks

"Quill" 2 years ago

Nicely done and very informative as always...self confidence can also be related to pride...

Blessings

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NNazir 2 years ago

Good one..

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